There had to be preparation for this type service – God has been working in me for years.
Hamroz and I are strange members of the staff team at the International School. The distance of living off campus is emotional as well as physical. This corresponds to my first two years in Costa Rica, when God asked me not to speak in English. The distance that this divine directive put between myself and other like-minded ex-patriots resulted in one emotional problem after another. Years later, in Kabul, I was able to anticipate the emotional distance and head off the problems before they tended to divide the team.
Language learning is a test not of ability but of persistency. Though I had at first swallowed the myth and believed that I would be “gifted” to learn Dari, when great efforts produced laughable results, the memories of what it was really like learning Spanish in Costa Rica came pouring back. I could recall how heavy the price would be, and what the results would be worth. And that knowledge has spurred me to continue to keep on and try anew over and over again. The righteous stumbles seven times and gets up again – that describes about 120 seconds of language learning. And I was prepared.
The quality of our marriage relationship has been a tremendous key to bless the surrounding community. In this region the idea of a man giving up his life for his wife, and using that sacrifice to establish his leadership in the household, is absent. Therefore, our love shines hope into many hearts. From the beginning, there was little room for error; people were already inside our home to greet us upon our return from our honeymoon. In order to meet these requirements, the divine instructions were for me to pass some years and gain maturity as a single man, not to use marriage as the vehicle to gain maturity. Only now is it obvious why it had to be so.
Matthew 7:14 - The way is narrow that leads to life, and few are those who find it.
I HEED CAREFULLY THE WARNING OF JESUS SINCE I REALIZE THAT THE VOICE OF THE MAJORITY, BEING AFRAID OF BOTH THE BATTLE AND THE COST, WILL BE A VOICE OF DISCOURAGEMENT TO ME. - Al Finch